Hi. I am so happy you stopped by!
Someone asked me that question once, and it changed everything for me. Would I be happy with myself in five years if I kept going as planned…and my answer was HELL NO! So, I knew I would have to make some changes.
That started my initial search online for ideas of businesses I could start on my own, or something like that. Now, mind you, I am like 15 credit hours away from getting my Bachelor's degree, but to be honest with myself, I know I would not be happy doing anything that having a Psychology degree would allow me to do.
I was pregnant at the time, so I knew I had to figure out something FAST, otherwise I would be stuck working in a bar much longer than I anticipated. UUUGHHHH, the dread…the worry of what will happen in the future. Quite often I asked myself if it (“it” being life) would ever get better.
If I would have remained the same person with the same skill set, then no, it never would have gotten any better. That is key! If you want more out of life, you just need a few more “life tools” to help you be able to take care of all the crap life throws at you.
I am not saying that I have the answer to all your problems, but what I do have is the vehicle for change. I will show you every step of the way as others have done for me.
Once I learned that I could work when I wanted to, make money while I sleep, and live life the way I wanted to… I was totally on board.
Once I learned that there is no inventory, no crazy investment, no parties, NO PRESSURE– I was all in 110%.
My past & why I HAD to change it!
I used to live paycheck to paycheck. Barely able to scrape together extra money if I had to go to Urgent Care. Not sure if I would be able to recover from some type of leave with no pay from work for an injury or other unpredictable disaster. Vacation? What is that?!
Now, I can sleep until I want every single day. I get to be there for my daughter and watch her grow instead of having to miss out because I work a job that takes up all my time and energy. I get to live life on my own terms. Go on more than one vacation a year if I choose.
The list goes on and on. And no, you don't ever get something for nothing.
If you allow yourself to see that these types of jobs are extremely SIMPLE, but takes a LOT of dedication and hard work (especially at first). That it is completely normal to feel overwhelmed, stressed out, and scared at first. As is with any new job! This is why there are so many people out there who have written books and teach classes and offer support.
It is not easy. BUT IT IS DO-ABLE! There is no sense in reinventing the wheel either, and that is where a lot of people might give up, because they are not seeing results doing it their way. Listen to your team leader! There are strategies and ways of doing things that will yield results, if you let yourself see them.
You really just have to get used to feeling uncomfortable for a little while.Then you will allow yourself to see a whole new way of life. That it IS possible. I have a method for the madness so you won't ever feel alone or unsupported.
Why in the world would you trust a stranger?!
I totally get it, why would you trust me when you have never even met me?! I guess the best way to explain why I am reaching out to fellow single parents who are looking to do better in life. To support others looking to change their life and to set a positive example for their children. To support others that have decided that they want a better life and know it is possible but just not sure how to get there.
I know how to get there! I have the vehicle for change! To help others that have changed their out look on life by DEMANDING a new standard of quality in their lives. This is my passion, and I will always feel great about that.
There is no shame in wanting to live comfortably! People like us are great people to create wealth because we understand the value of hard work and most likely want to help others do the same.
Or help those in need! Not all wealthy people are bad or shallow, and this is what took me awhile to understand for myself. For some reason we are shamed into thinking that having a lot of money (while not working yourself to death) is unacceptable. Well if you need a little push, I am your gal. Let's do this!
I needed to fix my relationship with money. I know for a fact that I am not a shallow person, and I also know that the things I want to do will require time freedom- NOT working the awful 9-5 (or more) job that leaves me with no time for friends or family. NOT working a job that is so completely unfulfilling that an underlying depression kicks in over time. NOT working a job that forces me to constantly ask myself where the time went and feel the gut wrenching emotion of dread every single day and scrambling to find the energy to make it through the day.
I knew that I needed a job that gave me complete freedom and the financial ability to accomplish things that matter to me! If money did not have power over things like food and shelter for me and my family, I would be out saving animals in need somewhere.
That is my passion and am constantly searching for ways that I can help from the comfort of my own home until my daughter gets a bit older.
I would create art and GIVE it away because I enjoy doing it and others enjoy receiving it! Money would give me the freedom to do these things and not be stressed about bills.
This is why I NEED to help others do the same.
Help others find that same financial freedom. I am still limited in what I can accomplish only because I choose to be a full-time mom. I will never be able to get these young years back with her, so I am okay with moving slow at first. But, I know I have found something worthwhile and substantial, and am seeing immediate results.
Something that will truly change the quality of our everyday lives. Something that will change our futures and my whole family's future. So, for now, I am slowly building my empire and I see my new world unfolding one piece at a time. There is nothing like it.
How to start?!
There are ways to do webinars and attract customers. There are ways to tactfully invite people in your everyday lives to hear about your new find…it is totally possible…if you really want to change your life. Absolutely risk free.
And I will help and support you along the way. I have a training pack that I will share with you…if you are serious about giving this a shot, I would highly recommend reading this book. If you are anything like me, then you are terrified of the idea of having to talk with people in social settings all the time, but Eric Worre,“Go Pro“ will tear down any walls of insecurity that you have,. He will help you build a solid confidence about how to approach every situation that you might encounter.
I have read a ton of books about Network Marketing and Direct Sales, and this one is BY FAR the best and most effective.
Personally I have dealt with social anxiety my entire life, and the most important factor I have learned that has made my life easier, is to just get comfortable with feeling uncomfortable ALL OF THE TIME. The reward is so good that it is all worth it.
Educating people about the company is the main priority and key to not coming off as salesy. Then you will be HANDSOMELY REWARDED once certain milestones are completed accomplished.
For any Network Marketing/Direct Sales you can hold parties if you want. If you have the right personality for it they can be incredibly fun and you will hit your goals quicker. If that style is not for you, that is TOTALLY fine and you can succeed just the same.
You will be able to teach people about your company one on one, or invite people to shop via social media, or sell completely online! One of my leaders does a daily webinar which she loves because it gives her practice with talking in front of groups, and she can reach people from anywhere in the world. That is a very powerful tool to utilize. You are going to do better with the way you feel better about presenting your company with others.
Here are the other three people and books that I have read so far that were extremely helpful in developing new strategies and gaining confidence: (FYI- if you sign up for the Audible free trial, you can read ALL of these for FREE!)
We simply guide people to our website, educate them about the awesome products, and perhaps the business side if they are interested, and that is it! You don't have to worry about inventory, customer service, or anything like that.
At first it is about getting to know the company and all the products, because you want to know what we have to offer and how to explain everything to others, BUT, then it gets really fun because your job starts to focus on helping others reach their goals and completely changing their lives. And in the process your life significantly improves.
This is the best best kept secret I have ever heard!
There are hundreds of different companies to choose from when it comes to Network Marketing type companies, but if you want to truly change your life, and your family's future, please check out my Business Review Series where I talk about all of the Direct Sales companies I have tried, and make sure you choose one that will work for you. I have tried 5 now, and am still currently in good standing with all of them.
Initially I tried one by one to see how I could work from home, and of course I have my favorites, and would love to share my information with you so you can make the best decision. Click the watercolor icon below to check out the company…
If you are in, then send me an email by clicking here so we can take the next step. And if not, no worries, I wish you the best, there are so many ways to make money from and all I want to do is cut out some of the bullshit for you, so you can just start and THRIVE from the very beginning.
Business reviews will be published VERY SOON- please keep checking back for updates. If you have questions, email me and I will answer any question you have or help you get in the right mindset to get your business going.
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